well i DO have one male and one female

because one of my doves laid eggs already lol. 2 eggs, which means one female. but, i still dont know which one laid the eggs.

cant tell by who sits on the nest cause both parents will take turns (altho i only ever see Coocoo sitting on it)

but im still going to just assume its the new bird who is female. otherwise, wouldnt Coocoo have laid eggs all these years ive had him?