just when i had pretty much given up on my legacy... i think i may have finaly fixed them
so i saved a copy of the family to the bin, sans house, and moved them into an empty lot. i completely rebuilt the house from the ground up (which im almost positive i tried before) but im not getting any lagg or stop and go now.
whatever it was, MUST have been attached to the old lot. or something on it. so i have had to give up all the generations of treasure, but hey i still got my family and fortune! lol.
i build a frekin mansion and still barely dipped into Sarau's funds